Meg & Scott’s wedding is proof you can have both: the timeless charm of a church ceremony and the backyard party of your dreams.

Some things never go out of style – like walking down the aisle in a white gown, saying “I do” in a historic church, or seeing your parents tear up in the exact pew they sat in on your baptism day. Cue the collective sob.

But that doesn’t mean your wedding has to feel like a carbon copy of your mom’s. You can keep the tradition and make it totally you. Just ask Meg & Scott.

This wedding started with a classic, sacred ceremony at Wytheville Presbyterian. A nod to family roots, generational faith, and the kind of timelessness you just can’t replicate. But when it came time to celebrate? They skipped the church fellowship hall and threw an all-out backyard bash on the bride’s family property. (Think: garden party glam with a touch of Southern charm and a killer live band.)

Here’s how they made it feel effortlessly fresh, deeply personal, and still like something their moms would be proud of.

Start with Tradition, Add Your Twist

The ceremony at Wytheville Presbyterian set the tone: emotional, elegant, and timeless. The invitation suite reflected that same energy – hand-calligraphed typography, a deep green palette, and a custom watercolor of the family home, designed by the bride’s sister. Yep, every detail had meaning.

Takeaway: Start with the structure your family values – then infuse it with your aesthetic. That might be your favorite color, a custom crest, or modern fonts layered with calligraphy for a “new classic” vibe.

Classic Wedding Looks With a Twist

Let’s talk fashion. Meg’s bridal look was the perfect balance of timeless and striking – an architectural satin gown with a dramatic train and modern neckline. Classic silhouette? Check. Statement moment? Also check.

And then there’s Scott. He wore a black tux, but the inside of his jacket told a whole different story: a custom lining made up of candid photos from their relationship. It was personal, unexpected, and so full of heart.

Takeaway: You don’t have to reinvent the wheel – just make it yours. Let the details (like a photo-lined suit or green velvet bridal suite moment) reflect your story, not just the dress code.

The Backyard Soirée That Stole the Show

After the ceremony, guests made their way to the bride’s family property, where a dreamy tented reception was waiting – and this is where the vibe flipped from formal to fun.

Under the tent: white linens, floating candles, classic floral centerpieces, and lush greenery climbing up golden stands. It felt like a garden party had a glow-up. The tables were set with gold flatware, wax-sealed menus, and deep green napkins that tied in perfectly with the invitation suite. Cohesive? Absolutely. Predictable? Not even a little.

But the real magic was in the experience – a laid-back lounge setup on the lawn, a checkerboard dance floor under twinkle lights, and a live band that kept the energy high all night long. And just when you thought it couldn’t get better… Meg and Scott pulled off a champagne tower kiss to kick off the party.

Takeaway: You can keep the elegance without keeping the church basement. A backyard gives you the freedom to host a reception that feels high-end and heartfelt – with all the personality and none of the panel walls.

So if you’re wondering…

Can you get married in a church and have a cool, modern party that doesn’t feel dated?
Can you honor your mom’s traditions without doing the same thing she did?
Can your wedding feel elegant and editorial?

Yes. Yes. And absolutely yes.
Meg and Scott did it – and now you can too.